We’re getting married in Manchester,
but my fiancé’s family lives in Devon. His family
is insisting that we’re supposed to pay for their accommodations
—and we just can’t afford that. What should we do?
No way are you obligated to pay for your guests’ travel
costs. But you are responsible for helping make the trip more
affordable. Look into group rates at local hotels—it’s
easy to score a discount if you’re promising that a block
of rooms will be booked. If some of his family members are
really financially strapped, ask local friends and family
if they can host a guest or two. And try to schedule a few
parties, tours or other entertainment, so that guests won’t
have to spring for as many meals or diversions.
No way are you obligated to pay for your guests’ travel
costs. But you are responsible for helping make the trip more
affordable. Look into group rates at local hotels—it’s
easy to score a discount if you’re promising that a block
of rooms will be booked. If some of his family members are
really financially strapped, ask local friends and family
if they can host a guest or two. And try to schedule a few
parties, tours or other entertainment, so that guests won’t
have to spring for as many meals or diversions. 
