When I told one of my bridesmaids the
cost of her dress, she freaked and said she didn’t know
if she could afford it. I wasn’t planning on paying for
my bridesmaids’ dresses. What should I do?
If the wedding is months away, sit her down for a financial
heart-to-heart. Be up front with her about all of the upcoming
costs: As a bridesmaid, she might be expected to chip in for
the bridal shower and bachelorette party; and there are possible
travel expenses. Then give her the option to back out of the
bridesmaid business, making sure she knows that you won’t
take it personally. Tell her you understand that the responsibility
comes with a pretty big price tag.
If the wedding is just weeks away and she is reacting to
the cost as you are placing the dress in her hands, consider
putting a halt on bridesmaids’ gifts and using that money
towards their dresses. However, if you really wanted to buy
specific gifts for your gals, just spring for this bridesmaid’s
dress. She can promise to keep it under wraps if you don’t
want the others to find out.
If the wedding is months away, sit her down for a financial
heart-to-heart. Be up front with her about all of the upcoming
costs: As a bridesmaid, she might be expected to chip in for
the bridal shower and bachelorette party; and there are possible
travel expenses. Then give her the option to back out of the
bridesmaid business, making sure she knows that you won’t
take it personally. Tell her you understand that the responsibility
comes with a pretty big price tag. 
