It's Ladies' Night
Creative ideas for your girls-only get-together
No need to try to emulate the guys with a bar-crawl—and-stripper
combo. Get creative and offer your gal pals a better bonding experience-anything
from a night of beauty to a road trip. Read on! One of these alternatives
should fit you and your maids perfectly.
Natural Woman
Break out the marshmallows and sleeping bags and set your sights on
the great outdoors, whether you're barely roughing it in a fully-stocked
cabin or getting out the old girl-scout tent and sitting around the
campfire.
"My camping bachelorette party was so much fun,""We had the best-
looking campsite around-everyone brought tons of candles to make
it festive and beautiful. We hiked, talked around the fire—and
everyone offered to take on wedding tasks for me. I came home feeling
so connected to my friends and with a great sense of relief that
I didn't have to do everything myself!"
Luxe Lady
If all-out pampering blisses you out, get the girls together and hit
the local spa for all the seaweed wraps, facials and massages you
can handle. There'll be plenty of time to chat in the hot tub!
Black Magic Woman
Hire a tarot card reader or psychic to give everyone a glimpse into
their fabulous futures.
Kitsch Queen
For your party, give everyone a chance to dig way, way back into their
closets and finally rewear that fuchsia taffeta bridesmaid gown (or
party dress) with the bubble skirt and jumbo-sized bow in the back.
(Serve plenty of cheese to complement the cheese factor of the party
fashion statements.)
Treasure Hunt
Your gals can come up with a list of daring feats for you to accomplish
by the end of the evening, from kissing a bald man's head to getting
seven men's phone numbers. The quickest way to throw this party together
is with "Bachelor-Et-A-Kit," which includes a scavenger-hunt list
along with a bridal T-shirt, veil and garter for the guest of honor.
Blushing Bride
It wouldn't be a bachelorette party without a little embarrassment
for the guest of honor. Your bridesmaids can deck you out in a standout
ensemble, whether it's a hand-decorated T-shirt with pens for all
the guests to sign their well-wishes, or a swath of tulle pinned to
your head. Or maybe they'll come up with a more interesting accessory.
"At one bachelorette party, the bride paraded around with a life-size
photo of her future hubby's head on a stake,"
Sentimental Fool
Get a blast from the past when you dig out the old college and high-school
yearbooks. Stop off at your hangouts of yore, and make a killer mix
of those '80s tunes you loved-though you might want to stop at recreating
your big '80s hairstyle.
Wandering Spirit
Take to the road (or the air) for a weekend adventure to the beach,
the mountains, or even Las Vegas-wherever the mood (and the budget)
takes you.
Sleeping Beauty
Throw an old-fashioned sleepover. Hang out in your comfiest pajamas
and munch on Oreos and Ben & Jerry's while you give each other
manicures, braid one another's hair and giggle over boys.
Miss Adventure
If you and your friends thrive on adrenaline, get them together for
your adventure of choice-learn to scuba dive or sail, or take the
leap and try skydiving. Or just head out for an all-day hike followed
by a picnic.
Gourmet Gabfest
Create an all-you-can-eat dessert buffet, filled with everything from
tortes to tarts (and don't forget the chocolate fondue). Just one
caveat-host this party at least a few weeks before the wedding, so
no one splits a seam come wedding day.
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